My Husband had Agent Orange!!

My husband had Agent Orange, he was called a "Gunner" which means, he shot down the good & bad people. While in Viet~Nam he & his friend one morning had their bunker blown up, his friend died, my husband had head injury. Now, my husband had done 2 tours over there, to serve Our Country. What I'm getting to, is that he was giving full 100% disable payments but when he pass away 2yrs. ago, they gave me denial Widow's Pension from him!!! Out of our 26yrs. of marriage, I took care of him, even on the day he died at home!!! Where is this Goverment for ME or is it?? This man had so many hang up that came from serving over in Viet~Nam, the stories that he told me was unbelieveable! He had booby trap his room with knife's, clubs, which I didn't know about until I had to clean it out.
Now, I've been waiting for almost 2yrs. for an answer from my appeal to receive a Widow's Pension from my late husband, there's some wrong with this system.
I have lost my home (Short Sale), sold everything we had, lost $3,400. a month from my income from 2 of his penison!! But we can give money to other countries, and can't help the Widow's here in USA??? If anyone out there could help me, I sure would be greatful!!!
Thank You,
Nancy J. Fong

Nancy J. Fong
Marysville, WA