I had always enjoyed a robust health. But in May 1999, I felt a lump in my left breast. Within the next two weeks FNAC was done (I was found to have invasive ductal carcinoma of the breast), followed by lumpectomy and further chemo and radiation all in 1999. My axillary nodes were negative. I was out of it all in 7 months, mainly because my illness was diagnosed at an early stage. I was 43 then. My passion for medical science made me read and browse a lot and improve my awareness on cancer.
My two children & husband were with me supporting me throughout. My daughter was my pillar of strength for me during those days. She used to kiss my bald head and made sure I eat my food and took all the supplements on time. My son was away doing his higher studies, he now makes sure that I live a stress-free, comfortable life. My husband completely took over running of the house along with his business.
My boss did not allow me to resign or take long leave, he was right; it saved me from falling into a depression!! I used to take my chemo on Fridays so that I could rest on weekends. Then my colleagues, they were amazing.
I have felt God's presence with me several times in my life and this was one. I am basically a very undemanding person and always lived my life adjusting with other people's needs, which, when I look back is not worth it at all. I have learnt to live my life on my terms now because I do not want to live the rest of my life with too many regrets. Regretting your own mistakes is anytime better.
Chennai, India