Things happen for a reason. My cancer was detected early because my husband was laid off work. When we contacted our health insurance company to inquire about our benefits, we were told that "we only had one week of insurance remaining" - then we would have to pay for COBRA to retain our benefits. Well, it was during that last week of health insurance, when all family members went to the doctors ... that "the lump" in my breast was found. It had only been 16mths since my previous mammogram ... yet, I had Breast Cancer, Stage 1. My first surgery was the Right Breast Mastectomy w/ Lymph Node Removal. The second surgery was for the chemoport insertion, followed by 12 weeks of chemotherapy treatments. Next week, I begin the reconstruction process with 2 more surgeries scheduled before the end of the year.
My journey through cancer has touched many lives. I am grateful that my husband lost his job and that I was able to find my cancer early. My family, friends and faith have helped me every step of the way.
My advice to anyone who has been recently diagnosed ... is to allow yourself time to process the news. Then, become as proactive as possible. Ask questions and research the information you are being presented with. Consult with several doctors and talk with other survivors. Recognize that this is "your cancer" and that you are able to make decisions. Seek the support of family, friends and the members of your temple/church. Try to volunteer in some way that you feel you are making a difference in this world. And by all means, keep your sense of humor.
Things really do happen for a reason.
Oviedo, FL