Hi everyone,
I was 42, had a busy life studying, and being a mum to two young men. I was three years away from getting annual mammograms. I felt a big lump in my right breast and went to the doctors to check it out. Long story short, it was okay but after having every biopsy available I think after finding other lumps and bumps to be concerned about. I had a exploration surgery to see what was happening in November 2012.
The results of that surgery were I had cancer dcis, non invasive. I think those three words, "You have cancer", changed my life forever. It was hard telling people my bad news. I found out who my real friends were through this experience. I had to create a new normal and get on with life as best I could.
I was really lucky I didn't need chemo and radiation. I opted for a reconstruction and mastectomy in the same operation in Feb 2013. I took off six months from studying and fought the fight against cancer. I spent time with my family.
Looking back, these are a couple of things that got me through, have a purpose for surviving (mine were my kids), wanting to grow old and see them grow up, and doing whatever you can to keep yourself well. I regularly had pyjama days with my favourite movies and junk food to take time out. Get a great support group around you, it helps a lot.
I have finished all my surgeries including my reconstructive ones and now to annual checks. I am so grateful to have survived. My message to everyone, if you find anything of concern, get it checked out as soon as possible. I think early detection is important.
Hamilton, New Zealand
