My name is Lora Meza and I am 50 years old.I was diagnosed on May 25, 2011 with Stage 3c Lobular Carcinoma after 8 months of being misdiagnosed. 17 out of 20 lymph nodes where cancerous. I had to undergo chemo first then a bilateral mastectomy and 30 rounds of radiation. I am ER+PR+HER2-. I chose to have a hysterectomy thinking it would further reduce the hormones my body produces. With no guarantees of course (not medically proven). I am currently in remission with the aid of Anastrozole. With no guarantees of course. Oh yes, can we talk about weight gain. Fat produces estrogen. HELLO! I have to laugh. I refuse to have cancer be the center point of my life. I am excepting of my destiny whatever it is that the good Lord has in store for me. I am truly blessed to still be here.
I have scares that I am not ashamed of and I chose not to have reconstructive surgery. At first it was difficult to look at myself in the mirror. What changed that thought for me was knowing that I was loved for who I am. Do I know what lies ahead? No, but who does. It is websites and FB pages like this that inspire me and give me hope.
The challenges one faces once diagnosed with cancer is undefined. The effects are different for each person. What I can tell you is, your support system is key to a positive journey and recovery. Since my initial diagnosis I have found that I have the most loving and caring family, friends, and co-workers that have been by my side since the the day I was diagnosed. I'm humbled by all the prayers and sacrifices they have made for me during my time of need.
What I've learned from this experience as I continue on my journey is; you have to be your own advocate. Do not let your pride get in the way. Educate yourself and do no be afraid or embarrassed to ask for help.
Stand Tall and Proud I Say...Smile!
Corpus Christi, TX
