Positive Breast Cancer patient -Drownding in negativity

In late june I went through a lumpextomy, followed by a mastectomy in August. I began treatment-Chemo in October,A 21 day regime. But even though I go through my treatments, both my son and my partner don't expect that I should'nt be the same because I'm not laying bed dying. Since I have a positive attitude , they act like nothing is wrong! How do I get them to realize that I need thier support? Being too strong of a women leeds them to think i don't need them even more now. what should I do?

Susan C. Boren
Wallace, ID