In December of 2002, I was diagnosed with Breast Cancer. I remember sitting with my mom and only hearing the words from the surgeon "I am sorry Patti but you have Breast Cancer." I took it all in and then later that night reality set in. All the questions of will I be alive to see my son graduate from high school and see him get married started running through my mind. I struggled to get through Christmas that year as I had to wait until December 26th to get all the other test results on whether it had metastasized to my bones or not. I am thankful I had a great support system.
All though my treatments were not easy and no one wants to go through cancer, the diagnosis has led me to a more fulfilling life. I have learned that I can do anything I put my mind. Since 2003, I have chaired a cancer support group and have been able to help so many wonderful people through their diagnosis. In 2008, I became a licensed massage therapist with a focus on working with cancer patients and in 2011, I published a book on cancer called "Hope An Inspiring A - Z Guide for Cancer Patients, Survivors and Caregivers." We never know how strong we really are until we have to go through a disease or illness. Breast Cancer has been a blessing in disguise because it has made my family and me realize what is most important in life: Family, Friends, love and faith. God Bless.
Oneida, NY
