I was 27 when I had my first lumpectomy. At that time I was scared but once the tumor was out I felt SO safe. I guess that was a false sense of security. At 29 I found myself diagnosed with cancer and pre-cancer cells in both of my tiny breasts. I never thought that such small breasts could be so dangerous. I was informed that a bilateral mastectomy was my best bet and would remove everything. My first thought was "Oh my God - I am single and a mother of 2 ...who would want me with no breasts." It did not take me long to realize there is SO much more to life than breasts and how we look on the outside. I found an inner strength that I never realized I had. I found the love of family and friends. I decided to turn this negative situation into something positive. I had rescontructive surgery for ME. I got educated on breast awareness. I am VERY open about all my experiences and try to educate and support other women whenever I can. I think what we must all remember is that we are NOT alone. Just look at all of these amazing stories of survival. I am a 6 year survivor and still going strong!!!!! PS- I am happily married now to a younger man who loves me just the way I am :o)

Anonymous
Peoria, IL