I am a proud grandfather (Papa) of a 12 year old Aspie. For most of his life I have been the male figure and have been the person he looks up to. He is an amazing head strong young man. He needs and wants to be the best at what ever he does, he is just made that way. We have learned that he needs to be given things that can keep up with his thinking. So, for all the people who are taking care of an Aspie, keep their minds busy with things that make them think. Do not baby them, they are smart and need a good challenge. Just watch out for the frustration level, it will be there. Just have them slow down and think about it and watch the results. We have to remember to speak softly and repeat things several times when the MELT DOWNS happen and oh will they happen. DO NOT GET MAD!! They are built that way. My grandson has a hard time looking people in the eye when talking to them. What I have told him to do is look at their forehead just above the eyes. This is a respect thing and now he is good at it. If you are having problems with your Aspie and feel at the end of your rope, do not give up. Stay calm and keep trying different things. Our Aspie is a wonderful part of our lives and is a gift from God.

Justin E. Morrison
Suffolk, VA