I had no idea what life could bring me until my son was diagnosed with autism almost 5 years ago. I was scared, had the initial feeling of guilt, fear, not just for myself but for my son. Through many years of educating myself and my family and everyone around us, I have come to realize just how amazing my son is and how foolish it was of me to feel guilty.
Alexander can conquer anything and does more in one day just to have a semi-normal day, than any of us does in a week. He works harder than any kid I see in his age group.
Alexander's diagnosis, while initally shocking, was a blessing in disguise. It opened up our eyes as a family to the world of infinite possibilities and taught us that we do not need to be like everyone else. It is unbelievable what these kids (& adults) can do with their hidden talents, their propensity for soaking up knowledge. Sure, they may not look you in the eye when they speak, but listen to their words; you will see how truly unique they are. If they do not speak, watch those facial expressions- they can be more meaningful than any words that come from them. Cherish the little moments where they offer their affection and never turn it away because you never know if or when you might see it again.
One thing this experience has taught me is that I have an intolerance for those who are not accepting of other's differences. Those differences are what makes each and every person, autism or not, special.
My words of wisdom: never give up, don't be afraid to work hard, because that person in your life with autism is completely worth your effort.
Hiawatha, IA
